◉ 053 | Dogs Move On

Maja left

for Sri Lanka.

Bruno noticed.

Of course he noticed.

She is his alpha.

I am second in line.

Then, the boys.

When she left,

I became

number one.

He needed me.

I was here.

And she wasn’t.

He came closer.

Sat near me.

Followed me

around the house.

He looked at me

like something had changed

and nobody

had explained it

to him.

That was

the new reality.

For about a week,

he carried her absence

in his body.

Waiting.

Listening.

Checking.

Then something changed.

He went back

to his routine.

Eating.

Sleeping.

Playing.

Like the world

had not ended.

He loves Maja

more than anything.

When she comes back,

everything in him

will reset.

Her voice.

Her smell.

Her body in the house.

Everything will move

back into place.

But while she isn’t here,

he accepts

what is here.

That’s the part

I keep thinking about.

Humans are different.

We don’t just

miss the person.

We argue with the reality

that took them

out of the room.

We keep things

as they were.

The chair.

The cup.

The jumper.

The last message

on the phone.

We say

we are grieving.

And we are.

But often

we are also refusing.

As if acceptance

means betrayal.

Dogs don’t seem

to carry that.

They miss.

They wait.

They adjust.

Then they

eat

when food appears.

Sleep

when sleep comes.

Play

when life throws

the ball again.

Dogs grieve

in acceptance.

We grieve

in denial.

Maybe that is why

they move on.

Pictures and words by Anton

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